As you practice self-love, these concepts grow to expand the loving truths, and life begins to resonate with these new vibrations. We are all only responsible for our own self concepts. We just need to be willing to release the old ones and embrace and practice the new ones. Feelings of shame and guilt are big reminders that something isn’t right with our mindset. Our self concepts can never come from outside ourselves, on the contrary, we must decide our self worth and our self value.